NLP – Creating Rapport

by admin on April 19, 2010

NLP

David Shephard

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AMARUT180 April 19, 2010 at 5:56 pm

You mean the middle …
You mean the middle finger buddy?

EsotericAdept April 19, 2010 at 5:56 pm

It’s deeper than …
It’s deeper than just mirroring someone, cause YOU ARE ACTUALLY MAKING FUN OF THEM, and somebody most likely WILL GET KNOCKED!!!

CROSS-mirroring is safer than mirroring, and actually better when you’re matching from a distance. As for verbal rapport, key words are repeated in a pacing way before you decide to lead.

satyricon451 April 19, 2010 at 5:56 pm

don’t want to be a …
don’t want to be a pill, but the speaker may have actually thought he looked like someone he knew. And it is unclear if the people looking at their watches at the same time did so because of his technique. I suspect that the cues of pulling into and out of a station may have signaled them to look at their watches.

Point it, we don’t really know. Now if he had tried the technique over and over again with new people, that would at least be a methodological improvement.

I’m just sayin’

xturnandforfeitx April 19, 2010 at 5:56 pm

hahahahaha!
hahahahaha!

ThompsonPros April 19, 2010 at 5:56 pm

oh man. I have to …
oh man. I have to hand it to you. That was a good one.

BritishArrow April 19, 2010 at 5:56 pm

thanks
thanks

ceasewon April 19, 2010 at 5:56 pm

lol yeah me too lmao
lol yeah me too lmao

JSparkleZ2 April 19, 2010 at 5:56 pm

This is dead on… …
This is dead on… Everytime I give someone the finger they give me the finger right back…

leopower7 April 19, 2010 at 5:56 pm

woah, is mirroring …
woah, is mirroring bodylanguage so strong like that ? :O

VHASE April 19, 2010 at 5:56 pm

I once made rapport …
I once made rapport with a dinosaur…he followed me home. then I defeated terror on earth, got laid by the 10 most beautiful women you can find, and after that had a nice bath.

Your story sounds powerful, but also pretty fake.

SASRosco03 April 19, 2010 at 5:56 pm

Thanks very helpful …
Thanks very helpful!!

ahfna April 19, 2010 at 5:56 pm

that sounds like …
that sounds like body language

zezt April 19, 2010 at 5:56 pm

NLP is snide shit. …
NLP is snide shit. its something tony fukin bLIAR loves

ProperNotFunny April 19, 2010 at 5:56 pm

LMAOOO
6 other …

LMAOOO
6 other people checked their watch at the same time hahaha! That’s awesome. I find it hard to believe even though I know rapport can work.

UKJazzCat April 19, 2010 at 5:56 pm

‘Match gestures …
‘Match gestures whilst YOU’RE talking’. People try to do it the other way around. That would annoy/distract them. Funny, the mention of ‘accidental rapport’ – a woman may be checking you out, and if you close yr eyes and play with your eyebrow or your lip, she’ll get her mirror out of her bag.

monorreax April 19, 2010 at 5:56 pm

Exelent video thanx …
Exelent video thanx very much !!!1

mrtvman April 19, 2010 at 5:56 pm

cool
cool

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